Friday, January 8, 2010

I'm Gonna Be A Divorced Dad!


This guide is for the dad who is seeking custody of his child or children. The father that has been involved in their lives since the day they were born. This is not for the father who is trying to get even with his ex for whatever reason and is using the children for this purpose. Children are NOT bargaining chips. Custody is not meant to be a way to get out of paying child support and they are not tools to be used for revenge. If you are the first kind of dad, this guide is for you. It is written from a combination of sources. Some are from research and some are from personal experience of going through one of the worst times of my life. Some of it was learned from personal mistakes! I do know that I wish I had all this information at the BEGINNING!

Love may be blind, but marriage is an eye-opener!



It all started however long ago. You found the woman of your dreams. She was funny, spontaneous, affectionate and you knew you wanted to spend the rest of your life with her. You marry her not realizing that the words....till death do we part will take on new meaning for you in the future. You decide to have children and these are the happiest moments of your life and you think to yourself....damn, this is what it is all about! Nothing is more precious than the smile on your child's/children's face or the sparkle in their eyes when they look at you. Nothing more wonderful than watching them sleep! Life is good!

But it doesn't stay good. Things start getting rough and you see your marriage deteriorating in front of your eyes. Your funny, spontaneous, affectionate wife has suddenly been kidnapped by aliens and they left this nagging, miserable person in her place. You know this is true and maybe you keep trying in hopes that the aliens will return the woman that you once loved so much. After awhile, you may even realize that this person is here to stay as the aliens didn't want her either! You come to the realization that what started with 2 small words...."I do" will now end in "Dissolution of Marriage", "Division of Marital Property",

You suddenly find that you can't do anything right even though you are doing the same things that you always did!

Finally, one of you gets the guts to say "ENOUGH"! Do you walk out the door thinking that the marriage will end civilly? After all, you are both parents to the children and you only want what is best for them and you know your wife does too.


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